Hello hello hello!
Well guys today I'm changing my post a little bit and I'm going to talk about some behavior improvement. Since the beginning, I being focusing on writing about the everyday problems we all have but I saw something the other day that really called my attention and I want to let you guys know about it.
So I'm in my college class and we have a guest speaker. When she gets there, she tell us to think about the things we love and also to think about our mistakes and the things we want to change about ourselves. At the moment I was like eh ok I guess I can do that much. But what I didn't know was the activity she planned to do. After like 10 minutes, she made half of the class stand and tell the person in front everything we thought about. When she said that, I was like omg there is no way I gonna tell this person stuff like that. However, after really thinking about it I was like whatever let's get over this. To be honest, when I did it I felt silly but I also felt something easing inside me. I felt powerful and better with myself because I was admitting the things that bother me and the things I really love. Then, I started to think about what I did while the speaker talked about other stuff.
After a couple days, I began to miss the feeling I got that day so I came up with the conclusion of why I felt like that, and as the own saying says, "the first step towards solving you problems is admitting that you have them." After coming up with that, I got an idea; that idea was to stand in front of the mirror every day and tell myself all the things I need to be grateful for and the things I want to get rid of like people around me and the bad habits I have. I know this might sound crazy but it actually helps. As it is right now, I have noticed the fact that I'm treating others better and my bad habits are fading away little by little.
I know this doesn't make much sense and it might sound extremely stupid and crazy but I encourage you guys to do it or at least try it. Like really, I don't care if I have to look like an idiot for a couple days or months if after those months are over I'm going to be a better person. I hope you guys feel the same way, that you think about it. There are some habits that everyone has that no everybody likes them and find them annoying. I'm not saying to change to make others happy, however, I'm telling you guys to try to change into a more desirable person to be around.
