Friday, June 14, 2013

I Do Care but You Don't

Yeah, we all have known someone who doesn't care about us but we still care about that person. If you say you haven't let me tell you right now that you need to learn how to lie. Now the thing is how do we stop caring about that person .... well we can't just do that because unfortunately things don't work that easy. Sad isn't it?!?! But here I'm ready to give you some plans/ideas of how to just forget about this for a moment. Hmm maybe for way more than a simple moment. 

First, don't go and play your sad songs and start crying and acting like the world is going to end. Nor go to the movies and let everyone know how pathetic you can be because a friend or not even that doesn't feel the same way you do. Trust me the world is not going end to because you are depressed and down and no one besides your friends and family care if you are miserable and some times not even them. Like really society is just like that, people who doesn't know you just want to talk about you and most of the time they don't say nice things. Second, find something that you like and do it, doesn't matter what it is just do it. If you don't find any interest on anything you like at the moment then don't even try to do it because within 5-10 mins you are going to be doing everything but that. Also, don't text or call that person have some self respect. At the end when you stop caring you going to be like what was I thinking about and stuff like that and that doesn't help you either.

Now, if you are the kind of person who are not that suicidal which mean that you are more than crazy, I also have some ideas for you. If you want just go shopping or hang out friends or go to the park, whatever you want to do that's not staying at home. On the other hand, if you don't feel like getting out of your house call some friends over and have a good time. Your goal is not to give yourself enough time to think about a person who totally doesn't even notice you are there. PLEASE don't be like those people who act like if the other person is more than a friend and go and get drunk and hook up with some weirdo. Remember that you still have a life to live and making stupid decisions can ruin it forever. Or maybe be like me and get a blog and start posting.... I'm just kidding this isn't the reason I created a blog.

The main point of all this is to let yourself be free and get over stuff that doesn't benefit you. Who knows at the end that person might even consider you after you stop showing how bad you feel because you are being ignored. Like everything is possible. And with this I'm not telling you to go and act like you don't care to see if that person considers you. In conclusion, doing this is not considered avoiding your problems,  this is just a way to stop something insignificant from affecting you (actually the one about getting drunk and laid is a way to avoiding your problems and being a coward).

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