Problem with Second Chances

Do you ever had an ex that doesn't matter what happens between you two you always want that person back? And when that person tries to get you back you actually give in? Well, this is the most appealing thing to do if you really love that person, isn't it? But do you ever ask yourself why did you guys split up? Or why is that person trying to get you back? 'Cause really people don't change their minds that easily.

Truth is that we don't. We don't think about it 'cause we like the idea for getting back with that person way too much to think about consequences. To care about about tomorrow and about our future. Maybe that's what love is all about. Giving in to your desires without giving to much thought to the situation. The big question is whether is this the right thing to do or not.

Is really weird when you hear that a couple broke up and after a couple years they got back and started all over again. Why is this? 'Cause sometimes love is just not enough to keep a relationship afloat. Hard to believe, right? However, instead of being thinking that love can overcome everything; we should focus more on the facts and experience we have. Like really, who guarantees you that that person will not make the same mistakes again? Or that he or she worth it? Really, this isn't like a moment where you have to guess what to do with your life. You should think more about yourself. Don't be so reckless. Thinking won't harm you but guessing will. Be proactive, be smart.

I know sometimes we might give second chances not only 'cause we believe that person deserves it, but 'cause we want to give a second chance to ourselves. Why? I don't know. Maybe we want to prove ourselves we can do better, that we can change things if we want to. The best advice I can give is to always be honest with yourself and weight the options you have. With such decisions we can damage multiple relations with our parents, friends, and family. Second chances are not just rights that you have to give to every human being. They are something that has to be earned with sacrifices. And if you decide to give it a second try then do it, and give all you have if that's what you want no one can't stop you. In case that person disappoints you again let it go. Meet new people and move on. Only a jerk will make someone suffer twice. And trust me, there are a lot of those everywhere.

However, I don't believe in getting back with someone after a break up. I think if I can save myself some pain I will do so. I haven't yet meet the person who is worth someone's else tears, including mines. And I'm sure I will never do so; 'cause no one that didn't take advantage of a first chance, will take advantage of a second one. Never forget that we need to show them we have changed. That we ain't the same person we were before. That we are stronger. And most important, that we ain't willing to get our hearts broken again.